There is an amazing speech that too few people have heard or remember. This speech comes from the movie Second Hand Lions. It’s a movie you don’t hear much about, but that had several good messages. I would HIGHLY recommend it to anyone that is trying to walk that path of honor and integrity and be a mindful human in this small world.
The text of that speech is as follows:
Walter: Those stories about Africa . . . about you . . . they’re true, aren’t they?
Hub: Doesn’t matter.
Walter: It does too. Around my mom all I hear is lies. I don’t know what to believe.
Hub: Damn, if you want to believe in something then believe in it. Just because something isn’t true that’s no reason you can’t believe in it.
There’s a long speech I give to young men. Sounds like you need to hear a piece of it. Just a piece.
Sometimes, the things that may or may not be true are the things that a man needs to believe in the most. That people are basically good. That honor, courage, and virtue mean everything. That power and money, money and power, mean nothing. That good always triumphs over evil, and I want you to remember this, that love . . . true love never dies. You remember that, boy. Remember that. Doesn’t matter if it’s true or not, you see. A man should believe in those things because . . . those are the things worth believing in.
We cannot choose or control what happens in our lives many times. What we CAN control is the way in which we react. Reactions are our own and no other being can ever force our reaction. It is purely yours. That makes it especially valuable and powerful. Don’t waste it.
Now the things that are worth believing in…
That honor, courage, and virtue mean everything. There is a simple truth I grew up hearing and that my kids are growing up hearing. That simple truth is that the most valuable things you own are your name and your word. Without both, they are worthless. Together, they are priceless. Honor, courage, and virtue are things that can be overlooked in today’s world. Make no mistake…their value is not lost. Only the appraisers.
That power and money, money and power mean nothing. Here’s the thing…if you lost every dollar you had, you would still be you. Remember that.
Good always triumphs over evil. Some will say that this makes things too predictable. We are, after all, in the age of the anti-hero. Breaking Bad, Deadpool, The Walking Dead, and a few others are good examples. But there is a greater truth out there. The good will always outnumber the bad. Always.
True love never dies. I don’t think I need to go into this one.
And really, that’s the point he makes in his speech. It doesn’t matter if they are true. It doesn’t matter what I say. It doesn’t matter what anyone else says. All that matters is if you believe.
My suggestion is pretty simple…figure out what you believe. Figure out who you are. Figure out what counts.
Then become a warrior who is not afraid to fight for what you believe. Who is unafraid to sacrifice everything for those beliefs. Who makes those things worth believing in your creed and your life. Who is unafraid to taste their own blood to protect them.
Someone who will do whatever is necessary to make sure those beliefs stand firm.
Someone who needs no motivation, for they have discipline.
Become as valuable as your word and your name. And then make sure those you surround yourself with are held to that standard. After all, sometimes believing in someone is enough for them to become what you believe they can be.
Love and belief…therein lies the real power.